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Selena Gomez’s Dating History: List of Her Past Boyfriends & Flings

Selena Gomez is still looking for her ideal match. The Lose You To Love Me singer has been in a few serious relationships since the time she rose to prominence but till now she has not found the one.

Gomez’s high-profile relationships over the years have also kept her in the news. Come on, we know all of you were shipping Selena and Justin Bieber at one point but maybe they were not each other’s soulmates. He moved on in his life and went on to marry model Hailey Baldwin. Keep reading further to learn everything about Selena’s past relationships.

Take a look at all the famous exes of Selena Gomez

Nick Jonas

The Love You Like a Love Song singer dated the Jumanji: The Next Level actor in the year 2008. The whirlwind romance of the Disney stars was short-lived. The two of them even starred in the music video of the Jonas Brothers’ song Burnin’ Up.

During an interview with Capital FM, Selena spilled the beans on the pair’s romance and she said, “We were babies. That, to me, was like puppy love, you know. It was very sweet.”
Let us tell you an interesting fact, Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift became friends around the same time as Gomez was dating the Jealous singer meanwhile Swift was dating Nick’s brother Joe Jonas.

Nick moved on in his life and he got married to Priyanka Chopra. The couple shares a daughter named Malti Marie Chopra Jonas. They welcomed their baby girl via surrogate.

Taylor Lautner

Gomez briefly dated the Twilight star Taylor Lautner in the year 2009 before he sparked dating rumors with her close pal Taylor Swift. The two of them met for the first time while she was shooting for Ramona and Beezus and he was filming TwilightNew Moon.

In an earlier interaction with Seventeen Magazine, Selena talked about her relationship with Taylor. She said, “Kristen [Stewart] was staying in my hotel. He would visit her, so we were constantly running into each other in the lobby—and we ended up meeting.”

The It Ain’t Me crooner further added, “We would go out to lunch and dinner, but I knew he had paparazzi following him and I had paparazzi following me. So we literally just wanted to hang out, go bowling and stuff, and it went a little too far, I think. People were getting a little crazy about us.”

Justin Bieber

Selena and Justin sparked romance rumors when they were spotted out and about in public together in the year 2010. The two of them were snapped while they were eating pancakes at IHop.

At that point, the Heart Wants What It Wants singer debunked the dating rumors. She told Us Weekly, “It was just pancakes.”  Back in the day, Selena went on to say that she and Bieber were more like siblings than lovers. They went public with their romance in February of 2011 and then called it quits in November 2012.

These two lovebirds reconciled their romance in April of 2013. The pair dated on-again, off-again for the next couple of years. During the breaks of their own relationship, they also dated other people. They reconnected again in November 2017 but despite all the efforts to make things work, they broke up again in March 2018. We guess, they were just meant to be but not meant to last.

Ultimately, the Stuck With U singer went on to marry supermodel Hailey Baldwin in September 2018. After a while, Selena dropped two scathing breakup songs in January 2020. Her album Rare consisted of many tracks that narrated the tale of their breakup including Lose You to Love Me.

Orlando Bloom

The Look at Her Now singer dated the Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl star in the year 2014. They were snapped spending some time together in Los Angeles in 2014.

After that, the two of them were spotted getting cozy in Las Vegas in May 2016. Nearly a few days later, Orlando’s girlfriend Katy Perry addressed the relationship rumors going around in circles on social media. She described the rumors as a ‘dumb conspiracy’ in a Twitter post. Her post was also retweeted by Selena.


The I Want You To Know collaborators dated for a tad bit in early 2015. Every now and then, the two of them would be appearing on each other’s Instagram profiles as they worked on creating some good music together.

While making an appearance on New Zealand’s The Edge Afternoons in June 2015, Selena talked about the pair’s romance and said, “I adore Zedd a lot and I definitely had a thing with him, which was nice.”

In August 2017, the Russian-German DJ recalled the high-profile situation that he was in at that point in time. He told Billboard, “Reporters were calling my parents. People were hacking my friends’ phones. I was pissed, [though] I kind of knew what I was getting myself into.”

Zedd further went on to say, “She is one of the most talked-about people in the world, but I had no idea how much that would change my life.”

Niall Horan

The Wizards of Waverly Place alum and the former One Direction member were clicked by the paps while the two of them stepped out for multiple dates in December of 2015.

As per various reports, the pair was also seen sharing a kiss at the 35th birthday party of the Come Dance With Me alum Jenna Dewan. They were spotted hugging, kissing, and dancing close to one another.

After a while, Niall and Selena were romantically linked again in late 2019. At that point, the This Town singer and the Monte Carlo star were seen together in a group photo but later on, Horan stated in December of the same year that he was very much single.

Samuel Krost

Selena dated supermodel Gigi Hadid’s close pal Samuel Krost for a little bit from late 2015 to early 2016. In August of 2016, the Fyre Festival booker took to his Instagram and wrote, “Selena is a real girl with a real heart and real feelings.”

Krost further added, “All you superficial who are just unhappy with your love lives, understand that love is real. Although we have ventured on separate paths, at least I know that love exists. I love you, Sel.”  Later on, the NYU graduate deleted his comments.

Charlie Puth

According to the reports of Us, the We Don’t Talk Anymore duet partners were hooking up in March 2016. At that time, a source told the media outlet, “It’s not serious, but she’s super into him.”

During an interaction with Billboard in 2018, the Left and Right singer went on to say that the duo’s relationship was “very short-lived, very small, but very impactful.”

Charlie continued, “It really messed me up. I’m trying to put this the best way possible: It wasn’t like I was the only person on her mind. And I think I knew that going in — what I was getting myself into.”

The Weeknd

The Save Your Tears singer and Selena dated from January to October 2017. These two lovebirds were spotted out and about kissing next to some literal dumpsters in Santa Monica.

The pair spent a good couple of months together, they were photographed by the paps on the streets of Italy and making out on a yacht. These two made their romance Instagram official right around the time of Coachella in April 2017.

Selena and Abel made their first red carpet appearance as a couple next month at the Met Gala. The I Can’t Get Enough singer had a kidney transplant in September and The Weeknd was with her through her tough time. He was one of her biggest supporters at that point. The two of them broke up next month.

Then a source told People magazine, “She and Abel have been going back and forth for a few months about their relationship. It’s been hard with him being on tour and her shooting in New York. That wasn’t easy on them.”

An insider told Us in March 2020, that the exes are “cordial” after she shared his music on her Instagram account. As per a close source, “She has no negative feelings toward him.”
The source further added, “It’s been hard for them to come to the realization that this is the direction things were heading, but it’s been hard for months.”

Chris Evans

In October of 2021, the romance rumors of Captain America star and The Dead Don’t Die alum began swirling in the air. Around the same time, the two of them started following each other on the social media platform Instagram.

Their fans began assuming something was cooking between them but there was no official evidence about the duo dating. At one point, Selena had a big celebrity crush on the Marvel star. While making an appearance on Bravo’s Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen in 2015, Gomez said, “I kind of have a crush on Chris Evans. Isn’t he cute? He’s very cute.”

The dating rumors of Chris and Selena came to an end when it was reported that he was seeing Portuguese actress Alba Baptista. Then in one of her TikTok videos, the Kill Em With Kindness singer went on to explain her relationship status and she said, “No, I’m fine. I’m totally fine being single, it’s a real thing. It’s fine.”

Selena opened up about dating in the spotlight

During a 2020 interview with Apple Music’s Beats 1, the Who Says singer talked about having a normal relationship despite the fact that she is a celebrity. She said, “If I can be honest, it is just so cliché. Everyone dates everyone.”

Then, the American singer also posted a TikTok which starts with her looking into the camera, and soon afterward, the camera transitions, and a clip of her four friends all coupled in pairs of twos looking super loved-up comes up in the video.

Selena further added, “It always seems to be within a little bubble and it’s because it’s safe, right? You know, you’re wanting someone to understand what you’re going through. You’re almost wanting a counterpart of creativity as well and it’s, you know, interesting and fun.”

The Only Murders in the Building star continued, “But the problem with that is that you end up — whether you admit it or not — you’re having your relationship for people and not even for yourself. There’s almost this point where it’s like, ‘Oh, we’re making it known that we’re together’ or whatever, whatever it is. It’s like, you just need to decide within our world if it’s for you or is it for show.”

In June 2021 Vogue Australia cover story, Selena described her love life as ‘cursed.’ She said, “I think most of my experiences in relationships have been cursed. I’ve been way too young to be exposed to certain things when I was in relationships. “

Selena Gomez poked fun at her dating life during ‘Saturday Night Live’ hosting gig

The Fly To Your Heart singer made her Saturday Night Live debut in May of 2022. In her monologue, she joked about her relationship status at the present. She said, “One reason I’ve been very happy to host is because I’m single. And I’ve heard SNL is a great place to find romance.”

Selena stated how many celebs including the La La Land star Emma Stone and the Black Widow actress Scarlett Johnson met their significant others on the American television series. She joked and even went on to say, that the show even got the Bloody Valentine singer Machine Gun Kelly and Pete Davidson together.

The 29-year-old rock star explained that she has no interest in dating apps. She further added, “I just want to put it out into the universe that I’m manifesting love. I would like to say that I’m looking for my soulmate, but at this point, I will take anyone.”

We wish Selena Gomez nothing but lots of love and happiness. We hope that she finds her soulmate soon. Don’t forget to stay tuned with us for the latest updates from the world of showbiz.

Meenal Mehta
Meenal Mehta
Hi, I am Meenal. I'm a travel enthusiast, a movie buff and a cricket fan all wrapped in one. I love to capture moments through my words. Writing is my happy space, it has been a great way of putting all my thoughts out and feel liberated.


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